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Joining in G-d’s time

 

We are very lucky to have a little church around the corner.

Church of the Brethren Pastor Darlene offered these photos of her Lenten Roses saying,

“They are a little early this year because of the unusual warm weather we have had.  But they bloomed on time for the beginning of Lent.  

I am reminded of God’s time.  

My prayer is to be able to have the awareness and patience to join in God’s timing.  It is often a challenge.  

Healing Blessings,  Darlene”

 

Thank you for your share, Pastor Darlene. This was my greatest challenge in recovering from my injuries — mental, physical and spiritual. The challenge of joining in G-d’s timing.

I was told in many ways, you must go through it to get to the other side of it. Others could see the progress. They said I was moving from strength to strength. I couldn’t feel it. I just did was I was told and put “one foot in front of the other.” Even before I could walk or talk, I think the first thing I did was wash my own face.

After moving from bed to wheelchair to walker to cane; from hospital to home; and not eating to eating, in G-d’s time, I began to feel the progress and a return to the land of the living.

Sometimes, I hold the woman that was me from January 2011 to August 2011 in the Light. I say to her, it’s going to get better. Now I can say, join in G-d’s time.

Love & Light,

Valerie

6 Comments to Joining in G-d’s time

  1. Terri Premo-Peaphon's Gravatar Terri Premo-Peaphon
    February 26, 2012 at 1:31 pm | Permalink

    Embracing Gods time is a very difficult thing for me too. I am consistently so impatient with myself and others. So often I have tried, in vain, to accept that there is a plan for my life. I have been amazingly blessed and yet, still feel like something is missing. I wonder if becoming more spiritual and involved in service to others would assist me.

    I enjoy reading of your journey and wish you the healing light that only God can provide.

    Peace,

    Terri

  2. February 26, 2012 at 5:27 pm | Permalink

    So much pain in the world. The mind wants to understand. But there is nothing to understand — just accept and letting go. That, to me, is embracing G-d’s way.

  3. nicola's Gravatar nicola
    February 27, 2012 at 1:33 am | Permalink

    well I am glad to hear of the first woman minister of the brethrens. I have a couple of brethrens or ex- in my circle. Lovely people. Good for you, Valerie. Me, I fail to see the purpose of giving a name to something we only know the emanations of, where some laws seem to apply to attract positive vibrations . Everybodies cup of tea has slightly different content and I like it that way. Love nicola

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